Our town is aflame with crape myrtle at the moment. It’s everywhere you turn, lighting up merchant streets, neighbors’ yards and sidewalk strips with vibrant colors. The lovely crape myrtle tree has a special place in my heart, as it takes me back immediately and always to those days when Grandma was in her nursing home in Sonoma. Many of the ladies in the home used to gather each afternoon in the large sunny lobby, looking out through floor to ceiling windows and large glass doors. They poignantly had placed themselves in the best position to see who came and went. It was the hub of unexpected activity. They also enjoyed a ringside view of the quiet sidewalk and street out front. Perhaps someone was pulling into the parking lot, or a child was walking by with a dog, or a group of children were walking to school. One never knew. While there was a well cared for lawn in front, and large, shady trees and several bushes, there was not really a lot of color, I noticed. Between the sidewalk and street was a wide strip of lush green grass, always well trimmed, but I began to see it as an open canvas, begging for a new look, enhancing the view of the clutch of older women who kept their vigil in the lobby. Hmmm…
As fate would have it, I happened upon a sale one afternoon of small crape myrtle trees, each sporting pink or rose or lilac flowers. And I noticed immediately that they were remarkably well priced.
Inspiration and boldness struck, and I rang the nursing home and asked to speak to the head nurse, with whom I had a very caring relationship, and who had decision-making authority.
“Pam? This is Kathryn. Guess what?”
“What?”
“I’m at a nursery down on Highway 12 and they have crape myrtle trees on sale. Yes, that’s right! Can I buy some? I can? How many?”
Five!
So I did. Now to get them “home.” I always say that an Explorer Sport is like those teeny cars I used to see as a child at circuses. The doors would burst open and twenty clowns would tumble out. Anything fits in an Explorer I have said a thousand times. So in the Explorer the five trees went, yes, they did, and off I drove to the nursing home to deliver! Within days the gardener in attendance had put them all in place in the wide lawn strip to begin their lives within the view of many elderly folks living out their last days in that nursing home. It is nearly eight years since they were planted. My witnessing of the crape myrtle here in my town kindles the warm knowledge that several dear souls are down in Sonoma enjoying same, simply because of a moment of inspiration bestowed on a loving granddaughter who sought to make her Grandmother’s last home as beautiful as she had always been accustomed. The ripples of that love spill into the lives of others’ grandmothers today.
In honor of that sweet memory I was moved to capture the spirit of the benevolent crape myrtle to share with all of you.
I was touched that this last one is sporting its next incarnation: berries. I love that as a metaphor, don’t you? Life goes on in its new form.
And so it continues, this spirit of benevolence with which we are all blessed, should we merely turn our attention inward and listen to the whisperings of our open gentle hearts. Oh, my dears, how the world needs you and your own inspirations. Listen and dare to act.
With love and garden blessings,
Kathryn xoxoox
Posted on August 12th, 2008 by Kathryn
Filed under: Plants
Oh Kathryn—when I come here and read your post—-my breathing changes and I’m all caught up in the life of everyone involved. I will heed your challenge and find something to do that will be everlasting and thank you for that. I love crepes and have planted 7 already in my new yard. I hope they grow up to be just like the ones in your pics above. I had them at my former home and miss them badly. One was a Natchez and it was more grand than any I’ve seen. Thanks for another awesome visit to your love of life.
Welcome, Anna. Thank you so much for your kind comments. I’m so glad you have surrounded yourself with crape myrtle! Yes, it’s so true when we move from one environ to the next there are certain plants we miss and try to recreate. I miss Texas sage and Baja fairydusters from my AZ home and am thinking I will try them here. Why not?? Hugs. Kathryn xoxo
Received from my cousin Julie by email and copied here w/ her permission (as I thought it was funny!):
The crape myrtle photos were wonderful. We see it growing as far north as Charleston and Huntington West Virginia but not here. It always reminds me of spring lilacs on steroids because the color range is similar but brighter for the crape myrtle and from a distance, the shrubs look something alike in bloom.
When I moved to Texas from Wisconsin, the first plant that stole my heart was a crape myrtle. The flowers reminded me of lilacs, and I love lilacs. The first plants I put in the ground when I bought my house were white crape myrtles. They’re gorgeous in the summer, yellow-leafed in the fall, and have smooth, tropical-looking bark the rest of the year. They make me very happy. 🙂
Hi, Lori, I’m so glad crape myrtle has found its way into your southern garden! Try Texas sage! (You probably already have, right?) I love it as it attracts so many bees it’s a virtual chorus. Oh, I LOVE that!!
Enjoy that white crape myrtle. It sounds very elegant! Kathryn xoxo
What a beautiful thing to do! Good for you!
We have crepe myrtles here in India too and they look gorgeous blooming in summer. But I’ve never seen the deep pink coloured one.
Did you know we have a bigger tree called Pride of India which has blooms which look quite similar to the crepe myrtle but they’re bigger. The leaves are bigger too. Its a real stop-you-in-your-tracks tree when its full bloom in summer. The dried seed pods look great in dry arrangements too.
Welcome, Sunita! I googled Pride of India. It’s Lagerstroemia, same family as crape myrtle. It looks like supersized crape myrtle! WOW! Lucky you. 🙂 I wonder if it would grow in Northern California?It looks like it might. I will check it out. The deep pink colored one is the most common here. The whites and lavenders are less common. Actually I was surprised to find the red one. I’d never seen the red one before this shoot. Thanks for the Pride of India tip! Kathryn xoxo
So it really is red? I wasnt sure whether my eyes were getting weak and I was seeing dark pink as red : D
I hope the Pride of India grows and blooms well for you. I ‘ve planted a purple one and a pink one in my own garden but while the purple blooms beautifully every year, the pink one has yet to bloom for me.
Hi, Sunita! Yes, fifth photo down is red as red can be. Perhaps it looks slightly different on your computer? Sometimes colors vary from screen to screen and browser to browser.:) Kathryn xox
Delighted to read about your lovely memories & see those Crape Myrtle trees. My circus car was an old Honda Civic hatchback – used to carry as many plants as I could stuff in, plus my Saint Bernard Winchester. Have graduated to a Honda CRV these days, and you would be impressed at my hauling abilities. Sadly, there won’t be any of those beautiful myrtles on my back seat – our winters are just too brutal.
Welcome, Barbarapc! Ah-ha! You know about the Car Trick! Very impressive, esp. with the St. Bernard! Yes, I’m afraid the crape myrtles are more the domain of the warmer climates, to be enjoyed with photos, at least! Thanks for the visit! Kathryn xox
What a beautiful site. I came to the site because of your article about the Grace Hudson museum and Indian uses of plants. I write about Indians of northwest California so I frequently google the words California Indians. Everything you write is beautiful and so full of joy – I love it! This piece on crape myrtles caught my eye because it reminded me of Lodi, California where these plants are on almost every street. I am in Nebraska now and am trying to learn in crape myrtle will survive these harsh winters. What do you or your readers know about certain names I can look for? Patricia B.
Hi, Patricia B. Thank you so much! I just read an interesting book about some of the Indians of Lake and Mendocino Counties. I’m not sure which crape myrtles will withstand colder climates, but they do exist! Google? Kathryn xoox
i live in northern ireland. would the crape myrtle grow well in our climate. really cold winters with plenty of wind and moderate summers averaging about 20 degrees ?
Hi, Louise, and welcome! You were not alone in wanting to include crape myrtles in your garden in colder climates. I do believe there are some species that might make it in colder climates, but you will have to check with your local horticulturists to find out. (Don’t let the nursery people sell you a crape myrtle not appropriate for your locale!) 🙂 Good luck! Kathryn xoxo